diff --git a/backend/src/models/Comment.js b/backend/src/models/Comment.js
index c89103e5d..f596c58f1 100644
--- a/backend/src/models/Comment.js
+++ b/backend/src/models/Comment.js
@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ module.exports = {
   },
   disabledBy: {
     type: 'relationship',
-    relationship: 'DISABLED',
+    relationship: 'DECIDED',
     target: 'User',
     direction: 'in',
   },
diff --git a/backend/src/models/Post.js b/backend/src/models/Post.js
index 5ac8378c2..bf630c419 100644
--- a/backend/src/models/Post.js
+++ b/backend/src/models/Post.js
@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ module.exports = {
   disabled: { type: 'boolean', default: false },
   disabledBy: {
     type: 'relationship',
-    relationship: 'DISABLED',
+    relationship: 'DECIDED',
     target: 'User',
     direction: 'in',
   },
diff --git a/backend/src/models/User.js b/backend/src/models/User.js
index b24148f00..ac1eef5e4 100644
--- a/backend/src/models/User.js
+++ b/backend/src/models/User.js
@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@ module.exports = {
   friends: { type: 'relationship', relationship: 'FRIENDS', target: 'User', direction: 'both' },
   disabledBy: {
     type: 'relationship',
-    relationship: 'DISABLED',
+    relationship: 'DECIDED',
     target: 'User',
     direction: 'in',
   },
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/comments.js b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/comments.js
index 7378238bb..ea5943269 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/comments.js
+++ b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/comments.js
@@ -68,7 +68,7 @@ export default {
       hasOne: {
         author: '<-[:WROTE]-(related:User)',
         post: '-[:COMMENTS]->(related:Post)',
-        disabledBy: '<-[:DISABLED]-(related:User)',
+        disabledBy: '<-[:DECIDED]-(related:User)',
       },
     }),
   },
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/moderation.js b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/moderation.js
index d61df7545..c519d9724 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/moderation.js
+++ b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/moderation.js
@@ -8,7 +8,16 @@ export default {
       MATCH (resource {id: $id})
       WHERE resource:User OR resource:Comment OR resource:Post
       SET resource.disabled = true
-      MERGE (resource)<-[:DISABLED]-(u)
+      MERGE (resource)<-[decided:DECIDED]-(u)
+      SET (
+      CASE
+      WHEN decided.createdAt IS NOT NULL
+      THEN decided END).updatedAt = toString(datetime())
+      SET (
+      CASE
+      WHEN decided.createdAt IS NULL
+      THEN decided END).createdAt = toString(datetime())
+      SET decided.disabled = true
       RETURN resource {.id}
       `
       const session = driver.session()
@@ -23,11 +32,14 @@ export default {
     enable: async (object, params, { user, driver }) => {
       const { id } = params
       const cypher = `
-      MATCH (resource {id: $id})<-[d:DISABLED]-()
+      MATCH (resource {id: $id})<-[decided:DECIDED]-(:User)
       SET resource.disabled = false
-      DELETE d
+      DELETE decided
       RETURN resource {.id}
       `
+      // Wolle
+      // SET decided.updatedAt = toString(datetime())
+      // SET decided.disabled = false
       const session = driver.session()
       const res = await session.run(cypher, { id })
       session.close()
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/posts.js b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/posts.js
index 3b3065277..de28d1000 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/posts.js
+++ b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/posts.js
@@ -306,7 +306,7 @@ export default {
       },
       hasOne: {
         author: '<-[:WROTE]-(related:User)',
-        disabledBy: '<-[:DISABLED]-(related:User)',
+        disabledBy: '<-[:DECIDED]-(related:User)',
         pinnedBy: '<-[:PINNED]-(related:User)',
       },
       count: {
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/users.js b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/users.js
index 06b25b4fa..a84d04c1d 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/resolvers/users.js
+++ b/backend/src/schema/resolvers/users.js
@@ -198,7 +198,7 @@ export default {
       },
       hasOne: {
         invitedBy: '<-[:INVITED]-(related:User)',
-        disabledBy: '<-[:DISABLED]-(related:User)',
+        disabledBy: '<-[:DECIDED]-(related:User)',
         location: '-[:IS_IN]->(related:Location)',
       },
       hasMany: {
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/types/type/Comment.gql b/backend/src/schema/types/type/Comment.gql
index 1ccf617ef..21220186a 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/types/type/Comment.gql
+++ b/backend/src/schema/types/type/Comment.gql
@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ type Comment {
   updatedAt: String
   deleted: Boolean
   disabled: Boolean
-  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DISABLED", direction: "IN")
+  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DECIDED", direction: "IN")
 }
 
 type Mutation {
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/types/type/Post.gql b/backend/src/schema/types/type/Post.gql
index b4d98ec5c..5d94d7af0 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/types/type/Post.gql
+++ b/backend/src/schema/types/type/Post.gql
@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ type Post {
   deleted: Boolean
   disabled: Boolean
   pinned: Boolean
-  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DISABLED", direction: "IN")
+  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DECIDED", direction: "IN")
   createdAt: String
   updatedAt: String
   language: String
diff --git a/backend/src/schema/types/type/User.gql b/backend/src/schema/types/type/User.gql
index cce0df058..a437fd8ef 100644
--- a/backend/src/schema/types/type/User.gql
+++ b/backend/src/schema/types/type/User.gql
@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ type User {
   coverImg: String
   deleted: Boolean
   disabled: Boolean
-  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DISABLED", direction: "IN")
+  disabledBy: User @relation(name: "DECIDED", direction: "IN")
   role: UserGroup!
   publicKey: String
   invitedBy: User @relation(name: "INVITED", direction: "IN")