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# Tiger Woods statement in full
## Read the full text of Tiger Woods's statement, the world No 1 golfer's
first public words since his repeated marital infidelities were exposed.
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5:25PM GMT 19 Feb 2010
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Good morning, and thank you for joining me. Many of you in this room are my
friends. Many of you in this room know me. Many of you have cheered for me or
you've worked with me or you've supported me.
Now every one of you has good reason to be critical of me. I want to say to
each of you, simply and directly, I am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and
selfish behavior I engaged in.
I know people want to find out how I could be so selfish and so foolish.
People want to know how I could have done these things to my wife, Elin, and
to my children. And while I have always tried to be a private person, there
are some things I want to say.
Elin and I have started the process of discussing the damage caused by my
behavior. As Elin pointed out to me, my real apology to her will not come in
the form of words; it will come from my behavior over time. We have a lot to
discuss; however, what we say to each other will remain between the two of us.
I am also aware of the pain my behavior has caused to those of you in this
room. I have let you down, and I have let down my fans. For many of you,
especially my friends, my behavior has been a personal disappointment. To
those of you who work for me, I have let you down personally and
professionally. My behavior has caused considerable worry to my business
partners.
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To everyone involved in my foundation, including my staff, board of directors,
sponsors and most importantly, the young students we reach, our work is more
important than ever. Thirteen years ago, my dad and I envisioned helping young
people achieve their dreams through education. This work remains unchanged and
will continue to grow. From the Learning Center students in Southern
California to the Earl Woods scholars in Washington, D.C., millions of kids
have changed their lives, and I am dedicated to making sure that continues.
But still, I know I have bitterly disappointed all of you. I have made you
question who I am and how I could have done the things I did. I am embarrassed
that I have put you in this position.
For all that I have done, I am so sorry.
I have a lot to atone for, but there is one issue I really want to discuss.
Some people have speculated that Elin somehow hurt or attacked me on
Thanksgiving night. It angers me that people would fabricate a story like
that. Elin never hit me that night or any other night. There has never been an
episode of domestic violence in our marriage, ever. Elin has shown enormous
grace and poise throughout this ordeal. Elin deserves praise, not blame.
The issue involved here was my repeated irresponsible behavior. I was
unfaithful. I had affairs. I cheated. What I did is not acceptable, and I am
the only person to blame.
I stopped living by the core values that I was taught to believe in. I knew my
actions were wrong, but I convinced myself that normal rules didn't apply. I
never thought about who I was hurting. Instead, I thought only about myself. I
ran straight through the boundaries that a married couple should live by. I
thought I could get away with whatever I wanted to. I felt that I had worked
hard my entire life and deserved to enjoy all the temptations around me. I
felt I was entitled. Thanks to money and fame, I didn't have to go far to find
them.
I was wrong. I was foolish. I don't get to play by different rules. The same
boundaries that apply to everyone apply to me. I brought this shame on myself.
I hurt my wife, my kids, my mother, my wife's family, my friends, my
foundation and kids all around the world who admired me.
I've had a lot of time to think about what I've done. My failures have made me
look at myself in a way I never wanted to before. It's now up to me to make
amends and that starts by never repeating the mistakes I've made. It's up to
me to start living a life of integrity.
I once heard, and I believe it's true, it's not what you achieve in life that
matters; it's what you overcome. Achievements on the golf course are only part
of setting an example. Character and decency are what really count.
Parents used to point to me as a role model for their kids. I owe all those
families a special apology. I want to say to them that I am truly sorry.
It's hard to admit that I need help, but I do. For 45 days from the end of
December to early February, I was in inpatient therapy receiving guidance for
the issues I'm facing. I have a long way to go. But I've taken my first steps
in the right direction.
As I proceed, I understand people have questions. I understand the press wants
to ask me for the details and the times I was unfaithful. I understand people
want to know whether Elin and I will remain together. Please know that as far
as I'm concerned, every one of these questions and answers is a matter between
Elin and me. These are issues between a husband and a wife.
Some people have made up things that never happened. They said I used
performance-enhancing drugs. This is completely and utterly false. Some have
written things about my family. Despite the damage I have done, I still
believe it is right to shield my family from the public spotlight. They did
not do these things; I did.
I have always tried to maintain a private space for my wife and children. They
have been kept separate from my sponsors, my commercial endorsements. When my
children were born, we only released photographs so that the paparazzi could
not chase them. However, my behavior doesn't make it right for the media to
follow my two-and-a-half-year-old daughter to school and report the school's
location. They staked out my wife and they pursued my mom. Whatever my
wrongdoings, for the sake of my family, please leave my wife and kids alone.
I recognize I have brought this on myself, and I know above all I am the one
who needs to change. I owe it to my family to become a better person. I owe it
to those closest to me to become a better man. That's where my focus will be.
I have a lot of work to do, and I intend to dedicate myself to doing it. Part
of following this path for me is Buddhism, which my mother taught me at a
young age. People probably don't realize it, but I was raised a Buddhist, and
I actively practiced my faith from childhood until I drifted away from it in
recent years. Buddhism teaches that a craving for things outside ourselves
causes an unhappy and pointless search for security. It teaches me to stop
following every impulse and to learn restraint. Obviously, I lost track of
what I was taught.
As I move forward, I will continue to receive help because I've learned that's
how people really do change. Starting tomorrow, I will leave for more
treatment and more therapy. I would like to thank my friends at Accenture and
the players in the field this week for understanding why I'm making these
remarks today.
In therapy, I've learned the importance of looking at my spiritual life and
keeping in balance with my professional life. I need to regain my balance and
be centered so I can save the things that are most important to me -- my
marriage and my children.
That also means relying on others for help. I've learned to seek support from
my peers in therapy, and I hope someday to return that support to others who
are seeking help. I do plan to return to golf one day, I just don't know when
that day will be.
I don't rule out that it will be this year. When I do return, I need to make
my behavior more respectful of the game. In recent weeks, I have received many
thousands of e-mails, letters and phone calls from people expressing good
wishes. To everyone who has reached out to me and my family, thank you. Your
encouragement means the world to Elin and me.
I want to thank the PGA Tour, Commissioner Finchem and the players for their
patience and understanding while I work on my private life. I look forward to
seeing my fellow players on the course.
Finally, there are many people in this room, and there are many people at home
who believed in me. Today, I want to ask for your help. I ask you to find room
in your heart to one day believe in me again.
Thank you.
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