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# Mens health concerns: partners and relatives
## Tips to help you spot symptoms that might affect your loved ones and know
when they should get checked out by a health professional.
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11:11AM BST 27 May 2011
Men can find it hard to talk about their health problems and may sometimes
deny they are experiencing symptoms even to themselves.
That's why you can play a vital role in spotting signs of illness and other
disorders and persuading them to open up, first to you and then to healthcare
professionals.
• It's important to understand how your partner deals with problems, as
everyone is different.
• If his behaviour has changed and he is avoiding social activities he
previously enjoyed, it could be down to symptoms you are not aware of.
• Provide emotional support and understanding by asking him about this in a
non-judgmental way. Explain you care about him and want to help.
• Reassure him that doctors are used to dealing with all kinds of medical
problems - they may be experiencing the same symptoms!
• Point out that symptoms he thinks may be down to ageing often have effective
treatments - so he needn't suffer in silence.
• Reinforce that his life and good health are so important to him, you and the
rest of his family.
• Explain you are a team and are 'in this together.'
Learn more about specific conditions that affect men over 50, by reading the
men's section [above the belt ][2]and [below the belt][3].
Get advice on the symptoms to look for [above the belt ][2]and [below the
belt][3] as well as where to get help.
**The Big 5 health concerns**
[• Prostate problems][4]
[• Erectile dysfunction][5]
[• Mental health and wellbeing][6]
[• Cardiovascular disease][7]
[• Obesity and weight problems][8]
**Top tips to get men talking **
• When confronted with a health problem, men often stop talking. Get him
relaxed, on a walk or over a dinner at home at the weekend.
• Look for changes in behaviour and ask about those first, not symptoms.
• Don't talk about it in bed - pick a time when both of you are upbeat in a
neutral setting.
• Make it clear that the symptoms he is experiencing are common in men of his
age and nothing to be ashamed of.
• Think of solutions, not problems - be positive and make it clear there are
treatments and products especially for men to help him.
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